Introduced in The Sims 4: Snowy Escape and expanded in future updates, Sentiments and Emotions add depth, memory, and nuance to Sim relationships. No more instantly forgetting that awful breakup or spontaneous woohoo in a bush now, Sims actually remember.
This guide breaks down:
- 💡 What Sentiments are and how they work
- 🧠 The difference between Sentiments and Emotions
- 💬 A full list of known Sentiments
- ❤️ How Sentiments affect gameplay and storytelling
- 🔧 How to view, gain, or even cheat Sentiments
💬 What Are Sentiments?
Sentiments are emotional memories your Sim forms with another Sim after a shared moment. These can be:
- Positive (e.g. “Closer from Happy Memories”)
- Negative (e.g. “Bitter about Breakup”)
- One-sided – Only one Sim may feel it
- Mutual – Both Sims remember the event the same way
Sentiments influence interactions, moodlets, and how Sims autonomously behave around each other — for better or worse.
🧠 Sentiments vs. Emotions
| Feature | Sentiments | Emotions |
|---|---|---|
| 🎭 Type | Relationship-based memory | Moment-to-moment feeling |
| ⌛ Duration | Can last days, weeks, or indefinitely | Lasts minutes to hours |
| 📘 Source | Specific shared events (vacations, arguments, romance) | Needs, environment, traits, buffs |
| 🔄 Influence | Alters how Sims react to each other | Alters how Sims feel overall |
Think of Emotions as your Sim’s current mood and Sentiments as their internal diary.
🗂️ Categories of Sentiments
Sentiments fall into a few core categories:
🥰 Positive Sentiments
- Closer from Happy Memories
- Deeply Connected
- Adoring
- Impressed
- Shared Joy
- Growing Closer After Argument
😠 Negative Sentiments
- Furious About Cheating
- Bitter About Breakup
- Grudging After a Fight
- Envious
- Disrespected
- Guilty
- Growing Apart
😐 Neutral or Unique
- Festering Grudge
- Awkward Encounter
- Deeply Wounded
- Happy to Have a Child
- Saddened by Death
- Left at the Altar
🧭 New Sentiments may be added with packs like Growing Together, High School Years, or My Wedding Stories.
📋 How to Gain Sentiments
Sims develop Sentiments through:
- Shared events (e.g. weddings, sleepovers, deaths)
- Romantic milestones (e.g. first kiss, proposal, cheating)
- Vacations (especially with Snowy Escape)
- Family gameplay (e.g. time spent with toddlers or teens)
- Conflicts or bonding (e.g. deep conversations, fights, or apologies)
Sentiments often appear in the Sim Profile panel. Hover over them for flavour text and duration.
🧪 Examples from Gameplay
| Moment | Sentiment Gained |
|---|---|
| Parent comforts child after monster under the bed | “Closer from Happy Memories” |
| Sim cheats in a relationship | “Furious About Cheating” (one-sided) |
| Teen caught sneaking out | “Grudging After a Fight” |
| Siblings make up after arguing | “Growing Closer After Argument” |
| Attending a wedding | “Sentimental about Ceremony” |
| Ignored at family dinner | “Hurt” or “Growing Apart” |
🔍 Where to See Sentiments
- Click a Sim > Sim Profile
- Under the relationship section, you’ll see any active Sentiments
- Hover over them to read how they feel and how long it’ll last
📅 Some last only a few Sim days. Others (like “Deeply Wounded”) can last forever unless healed.
🔧 How to Cheat Sentiments
There’s no built-in cheat for sentiments, but you can:
- Use MC Command Center (MCCC) to remove/add them manually
- Use mods like Relationship Cheats or UI Cheats Extension
For a list of active Sentiment trait names, check your Mods > Sims.log when MCCC is installed.
🧠 Why Sentiments Matter
- 💔 Adds realism to romance, betrayal, and friendship
- 🧒 Makes parenting feel meaningful
- 🎭 Helps deepen Sim personalities and story arcs
- 💬 Allows for nuanced gameplay — Sims aren’t just friends or enemies anymore, they remember why
Pair Sentiments with Lifestyles, Quirks, and Traits for full personality customisation.
🤝 Packs That Add More Sentiments
| Pack | Notable Sentiments |
|---|---|
| 🏔️ Snowy Escape | Introduced the Sentiments system |
| 🧸 Growing Together | Family dynamics, First Impressions, Life Milestones |
| 🏫 High School Years | Teen crushes, cliques, rebellion memories |
| 💍 My Wedding Stories | Ceremony-related Sentiments (left at the altar, romantic memory) |
Each pack layers new Sentiments into gameplay.
🧠 Final Thoughts
Sentiments are a subtle but powerful addition to The Sims 4. They make relationships feel real — capturing moments of joy, pain, growth, and resentment that shape how Sims behave. Whether you’re telling a cosy family story or a messy romantic drama, Sentiments add the emotional memory your game deserves.
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