Neighbourhood Confidant Aspiration Guide

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Become the heart of your community by advising and influencing your neighbours!

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What Is It?

The Neighbourhood Confidant aspiration (introduced in the Neighborhood Stories update) focuses on building strong relationships and guiding other Sims’ life choices. Your Sim will become a trusted advisor, helping neighbours with decisions about careers, relationships, and family.

Focus Area	Description
Category	Popularity
Required Pack	Base Game (with Neighborhood Stories update)
Key Skills	Charisma
Ideal Traits	Outgoing, Good, Self-Assured
Difficulty	Moderate
Reward Trait	Confidante – Confidantes can easily avoid boring conversations and are more successful in getting to know others.

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Aspiration Milestones

Neighbourly Advisor

Task	Tips
Successfully advise and influence the lives of other Sims	Use interactions like “Discuss Expanding Family”, “Suggest Career Change”, or “Talk Up Another Sim”. These can be found under the Friendly category.
Become Good Friends with 5 Sims	Build relationships through regular interactions, compliments, and deep conversations. Utilizing the Gregarious bonus trait can help speed this up.
Achieve Level 7 Charisma Skill	Practice speech in the mirror or use friendly interactions to increase your Charisma skill.

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Tips & Tricks

• Influencing Sims: To successfully advise Sims, ensure your relationship is strong. Higher friendship levels increase the likelihood of successful influence interactions.
• Charisma Boost: Consider joining the Social Networking career or engaging in social events to naturally boost your Charisma skill.
• Time Management: Balancing multiple friendships can be time-consuming. Use the Club System from Get Together to gather friends in one place and build relationships simultaneously.

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