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Big Happy Family Aspiration Guide

Raise generations, build strong bonds, and grow a lasting legacy!


What Is It?

The Big Happy Family aspiration is perfect for Sims who want to raise successful children, build lasting family relationships, and eventually become loving grandparents. With the help of the Parenthood game pack, this aspiration will have you guiding multiple generations while strengthening your Parenting skill and emotional bonds.

Focus AreaDescription
CategoryFamily
Required PackParenthood
Key SkillParenting
Ideal TraitsFamily-Oriented, Cheerful, Good
DifficultyMedium–High (multi-household juggling may be needed)
Reward TraitPatriarch – Gives nearby children & grandchildren a skill gain boost 📚

Stage 1: Readily a Parent

TaskTips
Become an AdultYour Sim must be a Young Adult or older
Spend §1,000 on Kids’ StuffBuy any toys, toddler furniture, beds, or decor under the Kids category in Build/Buy

Stage 2: Caregiver

TaskTips
Read to a Child for 2 HoursPut a children’s book in your Sim’s inventory, then select “Read to…”
Become a ParentHave a child, adopt via phone, or move in with another Sim who has kids and select “Adopt as Caregiver”
Socialise with Your Child 10 TimesFriendly interactions like talking, hugging, encouraging, or helping all count

Stage 3: Loving Guardian

TaskTips
Be Parent to a Child with 3 FriendsHelp your child build friendships at school or through playdates
Be Friends with 3 of Your ChildrenTalk, help with homework, teach, or play to increase relationships
Have a Child Get MarriedOnce your child is a Young Adult, build romance with another Sim and propose

Stage 4: Big Happy Family

TaskTips
Socialise with Your Child or Grandchild 10 TimesUse friendly interactions. Move the parent or grandparent into the same household if needed
Have 4 GrandchildrenThis can be spread across multiple children or focused on one Sim
Become Good Friends with 4 Children or GrandchildrenContinue talking, hugging, mentoring, or helping to boost relationships

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