For Sims who live to ruin love… including their own!
What Is It?
The Villainous Valentine aspiration is all about destroying romantic relationships — yours, theirs, everyone’s. It’s perfect for chaotic Sims who like playing the heartbreaker, homewrecker, and drama-magnet all at once.
This aspiration is only one stage long, but the actions are bold, brutal, and satisfying if you’re into social sabotage!
| Focus | Description |
|---|---|
| Category | Love (Chaos Edition) |
| Great Traits | Mean, Flirty, Noncommittal, Jealous |
| Skills That Help | Charisma, Mischief, Romance |
| Packs Needed | Growing Together (Required) |
Reward Trait: Twisted Heart
If you could see this Sim’s heart, you might recoil in disgust — but Hazel (the in-game icon of this aspiration) would never let you.
With this trait your Sim:
- Gains extra social gain from Mean and Mischief interactions
- Recovers faster from Sad and Embarrassed moods
- Basically becomes an emotionally bulletproof agent of chaos
Stage 1: Villainous Valentine (Only Stage!)
| Task | Tips |
|---|---|
| Get Caught Cheating | The easiest way is to kiss a new Sim while your boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse is in the same room. Public WooHoo also counts, but kissing is fastest |
| (Use flirty festivals or lounges for success!) | |
| Achieve “Ex” Status with other Sims | Under the Mean menu, choose Break Up once you’re in a romantic relationship. You can do this multiple times with different Sims! |
| Break Up Couples | This requires building a high friendship with one Sim in a couple. Then under Mischief or Mean, choose: |
| “Convince to leave spouse” (Available once your Sim is trusted enough). | |
| Note: The higher your Charisma skill, the better your success rate! |
Final Tips
- This aspiration is fast but tricky — it relies on timing, social control, and some good ol’ fashioned drama
- Use venues like karaoke bars, festivals, or parties to flirt in front of others
- Stack romantic relationships with different Sims before going on a breakup spree
- Great for Sims in the Drama Llama High School aspiration path or Criminal career too!
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